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psa “here’s a #suicide hotline with zero context” is so unhelpful and upsetting

i need to know at a minimum if they’re
1. religious-based
2. lgbT-competent
3. risk-reduction or total abstinence
4. going to inform any authorities, call ambulances, that shit

jfc shoving a string of numbers at ppl with “this’ll fix it!!!” is so insulting and unrealistic, you have no idea how many folks have been failed by this shit already

moreover: tag your fucking suicide hotlines


hey guys, I just had a pretty cool idea. you know how next week (october 26- november 1) is asexual awareness week? it is INCREDIBLY important that everyone, asexual AND allosexual, makes it a Huge Freaking Deal. let’s make it blow up. let’s make it so that next year is asexual PRIDE, not AWARENESS. 


Anonymous asked:

Oh. So you get turned on by anything abusive..


No, being into S&M does not mean you enjoy abuse. Abuse is disgusting and manipulative and taking advantage of people, especially in that way, is one of the worst things you can do.

I’d never spank someone who wasn’t also into that. In an intimate setting, I always check to see if the other person is alright with what I’m doing before I do it. Communication is constant. I’m there to satisfy the other person, not abuse them.

Mutual consent is incredibly important to me and I dislike people representing BDSM culture as having anything to do with abuse, sexual assault, or rape. Please do not confuse me being into these things in a mutually consenting and intimate context as me advocating for them when consent is not present.





Deconstructing Masculinity & Manhood with Michael Kimmel @ Dartmouth College


You know what I like, and feel is so important? That he doesn’t say “Men thinks those are THEIR positions”. He says “We think those are OUR positions.”

As a male feminist, he still doesn’t exclude himself from the group of men.


Well said.

We are (still) living in the age of the angry White male…who, unironically, is the beneficiary of 99.999% of society’s benefits 

(Source: exgynocraticgrrl)

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